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How to enjoy Thanksgiving and not gain the holiday 10

This article originally appeared in the November issue of the Rittenhouse Sq Revue.

Giving Thanks:  How to Be Truly Nourished This Thanksgiving

Did you know that according to some research, the average American consumes approximately 3,000 calories during Thanksgiving dinner?  That’s more calories than most people need during the entire day.  Add in a few hundred extra calories each day following Thanksgiving as the leftovers disappear, and most people are almost guaranteed to begin a few months of steady, holiday weight gain with their Thanksgiving meal.

The good news is that it doesn’t have to be this way.  Thanksgiving is meant to be a celebration of the autumn harvest, and a time when we nourish ourselves with whole food from the earth.  It’s also a time to celebrate things that we are thankful for and that truly nourish us – our friends, our family and all of the blessings in our lives that bring us joy and happiness on a daily basis.

So why do we overeat so much at Thanksgiving dinner?  For some people, it’s simply about not paying attention to how much they are eating.  We can be so busy preparing the meal, running around the den with our nieces and nephews and catching up with family and friends that we forget to pay attention to when we’re full.  For some, it may be because they’ve deprived themselves of their favorite foods as a way to “save up” for the holiday, and in turn, they binge when they finally get to dinner.

But let’s face it – what would Thanksgiving be without grandma’s turkey, dad’s mashed potatoes or pumpkin pie?  Here are some tips for staying healthy this Thanksgiving while still enjoying all of the delicious and comforting treats the holiday offers.

Don’t:

“Save” your calories for dinner.  When we skip meals, our bodies go into starvation mode, and begin thinking that they need to cling to whatever calories we give them when we do eventually eat.  This leads to a sluggish metabolism and a voracious appetite at dinner that will cause you to overeat.

Deprive yourself of your favorite family dishes.  If you love pumpkin pie, have some.  Life is too short not to!  But keep portion sizes in check.  Have three bites of the pie, and then fill up on fruit and a nice cup of coffee or a glass of wine for dessert.  By “crowding out” some of the calories and fat from the pie with fruit, you will save hundreds of calories and leave the table feeling satisfied, but not stuffed.

Eat until you are really full.  It takes approximately 15 minutes for our bodies to send us signals that we are full after we eat, so by the time we realize it, we may have already overdone it.  Practice mindful eating by putting your fork down between bites, fully chewing all of your food, and paying attention to the sight, smell, taste and texture of each bite.

Do:

Have a healthy Thanksgiving Day.  Have a good breakfast and a light lunch filled with fruit, vegetables and whole grains.  Take a walk or jog around Rittenhouse Square, or treat one of your nieces or cousins to a nature walk in one of the parks in the area.  Getting some fresh air and exercise will increase your metabolism and help you work up an appetite for dinner.

Bring your own healthy dish to dinner.  Everyone needs something they can eat a large amount of and fill their plate with.  Have some fun with the amazing seasonal produce we have available to us in our area.  How about a pureed soup with Kennett Square mushrooms? Or a big, fresh arugala salad with peaches and dried cranberries?  Take your favorite flavors from the season and turn them into healthy holiday dishes.  Who knows, you might start a new family tradition!

Consider what your “primary foods” are.  What are the things that truly feed you?  Is it looking at family photos and reminiscing about old times?  Is it spending time with your favorite uncle?  Get up from the table and remember what Thanksgiving is really all about – giving thanks.

And here’s a great, easy recipe to bring to your dinner…

Roasted Autumn Vegetables

Roasting seasonal vegetables is a great way to celebrate fall flavors.  Use local produce from a Pennsylvania or New Jersey farm, and your veggies will be packed with even more nutrients and taste.  This is a great side dish to bring to your traditional Thanksgiving meal (hint -–it can even be made the day before).  It will leave you feeling filled with grounding energy.

Heat oven to 350 degrees.  Chop up 4-6 cups of any of the vegetables below:

Carrots – cut into large chunks, or baby carrots

Parsnips – cut into large cunks

Broccoli – cut into large pieces

Cauliflower – cut into large pieces

Red onion – cut into thick slices

Eggplant – cut into two-inch cubes

Potatoes – cut into large chunks

Toss with olive oil, salt, pepper, a few minced garlic cloves, and a dash of balsamic vinegar.  Place in a baking dish and bake for 45 minutes.  Can be served hot, room temperature or cold.

Need some help staying on track during the holidays?  Email me for a free consultation.

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5 Steps to Ending Emotional Eating

Ladies, what is with this week?

I must have heard half a dozen women within the past few days tell me that they are struggling with emotional eating.

Is it possible that the stars are aligned in a way that is making all females on earth crave bread and chocolate?  Are we all PMSing at the same time? (Sorry, guys, but this does tend to be an issue primarily for my female friends).

Even I found myself in a snack slump yesterday, mindlessly munching on terrible things.

So, which came first, the bad food or the bad mood?  Either way, here is how to end this cycle before the holidays hit and we’re all really in trouble:

1.  Forget about every moment up until now.  What you ate last night or this morning is irrelevant.  What matters is what you do now.  Stop punishing yourself for whatever you’ve been punishing yourself for and move on.  Let it go.  Now is a new moment.

2.  If you’ve ever read Geneen Roth‘s books or heard her speak, you know that she always says that “how we eat tells all,” and that “our bodies are getting something emotionally” from the snacking or eating, or we wouldn’t be doing it.  I couldn’t agree with her more.  Our bodies are very smart, and they tell us when we need things.  So what are you getting from your eating? Comfort? Stress relief? Happiness?  Once we understand what you’re getting from this, then we can fulfill that need in another way.

3.  Help your body understand that life is not an emergency.  If you’re angry, stressed, tired, sad, or all of the above (all common emotional eating triggers), your body has likely been in a constant fight or flight mode, and therefor is clinging on to every calorie you give it, storing up for when the emergency gets worse.  (Click here to read more about John Douillard’s Ayurvedic remedies to calm our bodies down).  Breath is one way to do this.  According to Dr. Andrew Weil, breath is the most powerful way we have to communicate with our body and send a message that it is time to calm down.  Click here for a deep breathing technique from Dr. Weil.  Practice some self care.  Take a moment and do something that lets your body know that it is time to relax.

4.  Find a way to get what you were getting from the snacking in another activity.  If your primary foods are out of whack (your career, relationships, spirituality, exercise), then your eating will be too.  Is happiness what’s missing?  Call a friend that makes you happy.  Are you bored?  Pursue a hobby you miss doing.  Are you stressed?  Get a manicure or take a bubble bath.

5.  Do a cleanse.  By “cleanse,” I don’t mean one of those expensive kits you can find everywhere now that promises your body will be detoxified if you drink weird tea and don’t eat for five days.  By “cleanse,” I mean that you should try to incorporate both a spiritual and culinary practice that helps your body move on.  To cleanse yourself emotionally, do some writing exercises and then tear them up or burn them.  Pray.  Go for a run and stomp out negative energy.  To cleanse yourself physically, drink as much water with lemon (both hot and cold) as possible and go on a whole foods cleanse.  What is a whole foods cleanse?  Eat only things that walked, swam or grew that were prepared by kind people that you know.  It’s that simple. Make sure it is all extraordinarily delicious and the highest-quality food you can find.  You are a very special person, and you deserve it. Given half a chance, your body will heal itself.

If you’re reading this and need some more support, email me and I’d be happy to give you a complimentary “back on track” session ($85 value).

Sending you lots of hugs!

Sheri

PS – I had an opportunity to learn directly from Geneen Roth, Dr. Weil and John Douillard – they were all teachers at my school (I know, AMAZING!!)  Ask me about the Institute for Integrative Nutrition if you’re interested in learning more.

"The best thing you've ever done for me is to help me take my life less seriously...it's only life after all..." Go relax, have some fun, stop beating yourself up and take a deep breath. You can handle it - whatever "it" is. Now is a new moment. :) .

 

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